Everyone should be blessed with a father like mine. At nearly 95 he is still active, alert, caring and very, very good company. I am nearly 67 and my “little sister” is 53. We spent a pleasant lunch with Dad discussing everything from outhouses to computers. Born in 1917, he remembers no indoor toilets, rigging up a shower (bucket on a rope slung over a barn rafter), and when his farmhouse home in rural Tennessee was first wired with electricity – a bare bulb hanging on a wire. How did he span from there to flying bombers, to living independently as a septuagenarian whose online chat group entertains friends and family? He is a man who has continually reinvented himself and he is a man who has overcome great periods of difficulty and disappointment. I believe my Dad’s daily routine of getting up at dawn, flinging back the drapes, opening the door, lighting up a pipe, making a good cup of coffee and sitting by the window to watch the sun rise, the birds at the feeders he has managed for decades, and his quiet meditation on the gift of another day is the ground from which he draws such steadfastness. Dad is gentle in spirit, mischievous in nature, and loving and compassionate in his heart. He never harmed anyone in his entire near century of living. That is saying something. But mostly, he has loved me and my sisters when we probably didn’t deserve it – through the vagaries of life – he has been a rock. Our children have also found a loving grandfather and refuge whenever they have needed him. My gratitude is great today.
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Got my sense of humor from him which has been like a lifebuoy to me in my life many times; he is my rock. Love my father so much. Thanks sis. You said it all.
Susan, what a wonderful tribute to your father. You know, Father’s Day is one of those occasions when we may feel an obligation to praise and admire. I have sometimes been a little cynical about the day, believing it to be little more than a money-making idea for the card companies and retail shops. In its simple and heartfelt eloquence, your tribute dispenses with such thoughts. Thanks for that. (I am sure you always deserved your dad’s love.)
That’s the best Father’s Day tribute I’ve ever read! He is certainly an amazing man and he’s as handsome as ever too. Glad you all had a wonderful day with him. Makes me want to cry!
You are a loving and caring daughter. Your father is fortunate to have you as his caregiver and inspiration. How fortunate you both are to have this time to reflect and appreciate your shared journey through life’s peaks and valleys. What a lovely tribute of unconditional love.